Be comfortable talking in any setting

Be comfortable talking in any setting

Below is a self-assessment to bring to light what kinds of speaking situations you find stressful. Rate the following situations, based upon how stressful they are to you.

Select from the following:

A)  Very Stressful

B)  Sometimes Stressful

C)  Not Stressful For Me

If you don’t ever do some of these, rate how much stress you think you would feel if you did:

1.     Speaking in front of a camera____

2.     Talking with 2 or 3 friends____

3.     Talking with your family____

4.     Talking off the cuff about an important matter____

5.     Talking one to one with a person in authority____

6.     Speaking in front of a large audience____

7.     Talking to people you’ve just met, or encountered in public without introductions____

8.     Talking one to one with someone you know___

Now, looking at your responses, review these questions:

a.     Is this stress preventing me from doing or having something I truly want?

b.     If so, am I willing to feel the stress, and do it anyway?

c.     Is the stress related to being in a place I really don’t want to be, or with people I don’t want or need to be with?

Although some professional development consultants advise you should become proficient at speaking to audiences, there is no law that says you must. Think about getting your message across on a one to one basis, whether social or work related. If you don’t thrive at large social events, consider meeting up with a small group, creating your own social events.

If you ranked high stress in one to one or small groups, practice relaxation before going out. You can find tips and instructions online or at the library for mediation, biofeedback, self-hypnosis and other ways to relax and get ready before you place yourself in one of the speaking situations listed above.

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7 Ways to Improve Your Golf Game

by Kyle on October 6, 2009

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Not only do you want to enjoy spending time at the most beautiful golf destinations in the world, you also want to play the game well.  There is nothing quite like being in a spot like Oahu, Hawaii and playing at the top of your game. So here are 7 ways to improve your game, and have the time of your life whether you’re playing at your local municipal course or at St. Andrews in Scotland.

1.    Golf Hypnosis - Before brushing this off as a load of new age hoopla, none other than Tiger Woods and many top pros use self-hypnosis or see a hypnotist.  It is simply about getting your conscious mind out of the way in order to let your subconscious play the game with ease.

2.   Warm Up - Stretch, hit a few balls, loosen up your joints and get the blood flowing.

3.   Lean forward - Your spine should be tilting forward all the way through impact.  Your arms and hands will have more lag space, increasing your power.

4.   Learn from waiters - For the back swing, picture yourself carrying a tray of dishes like a waiter, and make sure not to spill anything: right elbow should be relaxed and pointing down.  Now picture yourself carrying that tray - keep your elbow in at the top of the backswing, by keeping your right forearm in a more vertical position. This helps to eliminate slices.

5.   Putt within 8 seconds or less after your last practice swing - This keeps the flow going.  Waiting too long interferes with the desired feel.

6.    The sweet spot - On many of the new drivers, the sweet spot is a bit above the center of the face, so you should tee the ball fairly high, and contact the ball somewhat on the upswing

7.    Watch the head  - do not raise or tip your head when you swing, keep it level.

Remember to have fun out there and if you blow it, avoid cursing or getting mad, which will make your next shot even worse.

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